http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1879191,00.html
Some of them are respected scientists. Some of them are psychologists. At least one of them is a briefly married former TV-morning-show host. A surprising number of them are stand-up comedians. And they all want to give you dating advice. If you’re single and don’t wish to be, have they got a TV show/book/scientific theory for you! As if you haven’t suffered enough.
According to the most recent census figures, about 84 million Americans ages 20 to 75 are unmarried or separated. Even if only half of them want to find a spouse, that’s a nice fat target for the media to aim at in a market where such uniformity of desire is rare. So while dating and mating instructions are probably as old as Australopithecus (Tip 1: “Stand up straighter”), right now the advice-o-meter is running hot. When a coupling manual turned movie–He’s Just Not That Into You–is a box-office hit, something’s up.
How bad is the dating scene? Bad enough that a production company believes it can find four adults willing to have spouses chosen for them by their friends and family, marry them and allow their subsequent domestic life to be broadcast on CBS. (Because what could possibly go wrong in your first year of wedlock to a stranger?) Other lonely hearts have already submitted to having their mate-finding woes aired on cable. Yes, there have been dating shows before, but none quite so DIY as three offered by FLN, the network formerly known for fancy cooking and curtain-choosing. Wingman, in which comedian Michael Somerville acts as a dating sidekick, premiered Feb. 10. How to Find a Husband, a British import, arrives in April. The network is also developing Love Taxi, in which a cab driver plays matchmaker. Dating, camera, New York City taxi–the discomfort trifecta.
Oddly enough, Wingman’s Somerville is not the nation’s premier comedian turned love guru. That would be Steve Harvey, whose Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is the best-selling nonfiction book in the nation, according to the Wall Street Journal. Harvey’s advice is old-fashioned and frank: Women are single because they have lowered their expectations of men and because they have not understood the three things men need–support, loyalty and “the Cookie,” the author’s euphemism for … oh, you know what it’s for. “I told the publishers I could have said everything I had to say in about 35 pages,” the twice-divorced Harvey notes. “Because we’re guys. We’re that simple.”