Both Lesbian Moms Have Parent Rights, Daytona Court Rules in Custody Dispute

http://articles.orlandosentinel.com/2011-12-29/news/os-lesbian-custody-battle-florida-20111229_1_parental-rights-custody-lesbian-moms

They fell in love, moved in together in a house in south Brevard County and had a baby girl. Now they are fighting over who should raise the child. But unlike most couples, they are two women. One donated the egg. The other had it implanted into her womb and carried the child to term.

So which one is the mother? The woman who bore the child says it is she and she alone.

A circuit judge in Brevard County, writing that it broke his heart to say so, ruled that she’s right. Under Florida law, a woman who gives birth is the mother. Last week, however, a state appeals court in Daytona Beach overturned his decision, saying the other mother has parental rights, too.

‘Don’t Ask’ Repeal Tops Year’s Events

http://www.wisconsingazette.com/national-gaze/dont-ask-repeal-tops-years-eventsbreaktop-national-stories-of-2011.html

The year ending Dec. 31 proved that LGBT Americans are on an inevitable path to equality. WiG’s picks for top national stories of the year, in order of importance, are:

1. DADT’S DONE: THE LIFTING OF THE MILITARY BAN

2. NYME: THE PASSAGE OF MARRIAGE EQUALITY IN NEW YORK

3. AMERICA’S PASTIME: THE PROTEST REGAINS POPULARITY

4. BATTLING BULLYING: IT GETS BETTER BANDWAGON

The It Gets Better multi-media project originated with writer Dan Savage, who wanted to send a message to youths after a series of gay-related suicides at the start of the 2010-11 school year. Some 10,000 people and organizations – from prominent politicians to average citizens – posted video messages to the It Gets Better website in 2011.

President Barack Obama taped a video, as did Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton, other cabinet members and the openly gay members of Congress.

Hollywood stars shared videos.

And athletes and professional sports team, including the San Francisco Giants, winners of the 2010 World Series, also produced powerful messages.

Giants Barry Zito, Matt Cain, Andres Torres, Sergio Romo and Hensley Meulens shared the encouragement that gets tossed around on the field in a video intended to convince LGBT youth that life “gets better.” For the 58-second video, pitchers Cain, Zito and Romo, centerfielder Torres and batting coach Meulens stood in their uniforms in AT&T Park to make their pitch directly to the camera.

Zito said, “We all know how difficult life can be as a teenager.”

Romo added, “We’ve all been there and have had to deal with the pressure to fit in and be accepted by our peers.”

“It’s particularly challenging for LGBT teens who face adversity and intolerance in their daily lives,” said Cain.

In the end, the players promised – in English, Japanese and Spanish – that “it gets better.”

The Giants was the first pro sports team to post a video, but not the last – the Chicago Cubs, Boston Red Sox, Seattle Mariners, Philadelphia Phillies, Tampa Bay Rays and others followed. But not the Milwaukee Brewers, which ignored a Change.org campaign asking the team to join in the effort.

Many ordinary folks – students, teachers, nurses, counselors, reporters, musicians, activists and even reformed bullies – also shared messages, many of them plainspoken into a web cam, but some scripted, sung, painted, sculpted or shouted.

Plus, by the end of the year, thousands had taken the It Gets Better pledge: “Everyone deserves to be respected for who they are. I pledge to spread this message to my friends, family and neighbors. I’ll speak up against hate and intolerance whenever I see it, at school and at work. I’ll provide hope for lesbian, gay, bi, trans and other bullied teens by letting them know that ‘It Gets Better.'”

Gay veteran challenges Romney

Mitt Romney, while touring the Chez Vachon restaurant in Manchester, sat down at a table with two older men, one of whom was wearing a “Vietnam Veteran” hat.

Bob Garon, 63, of Epsom, N.H., asked Romney if he, as president would seek to overturn New Hampshire’s law legalizing gay marriage. Romney gave his standard response affirming his belief that marriage is between a man and a woman.

Garon, who is gay and was seated with his husband, Bob Lemire, then said to Romney: “It’s good to know how you feel, that you do not believe everyone is entitled to their constitutional rights.”

http://www.politico.com/blogs/burns-haberman/2011/12/gay-veteran-challenges-romney-106900.html

Edging to Center, Her Eye on the Mayoral Race

Christine C. Quinn was making the rounds at a senior center in Harlem when Scott Bright, a 67-year-old retired security guard wearing a Hawaiian shirt, asked her to pose with him for a photo.

“She’s the man!” he blurted out. “This is the next mayor!”

Moments later, when Ms. Quinn, the City Council speaker, was safely out of earshot, Mr. Bright confessed that he had not much cared for her at first. But “she grew on me over time,” he said, because “a lot of the politicians read from the script. She just says what she believes, even when I don’t agree.”

Political fortune has smiled on Ms. Quinn this summer, as she lays the groundwork for a 2013 mayoral campaign: she helped prevent teacher layoffs and firehouse closings, and advocated the legalization of same-sex marriage. And a formidable potential challenger in the mayoral race, Anthony D. Weiner, saw his hopes implode as a scandal over sexually explicit electronic messages forced him to resign from Congress.

Now, many voters are reassessing Ms. Quinn, who emerged onto the public scene as a left-leaning Chelsea activist but is now courting a broader electorate. With increasing support from a once-skittish business community, Ms. Quinn has raised more money than all the other likely contenders and has the apparent blessing of Mayor Michael R. Bloomberg.

Obama Administration To Consider Gay Rights When Allocating Foreign Aid: Source

WASHINGTON — The Obama administration is announcing a wide-ranging effort to use U.S. foreign aid to promote rights for gays and lesbians abroad, including combating attempts by foreign governments to criminalize homosexuality.

In a memorandum issued Tuesday, President Barack Obama directed U.S. agencies working abroad, including the State Department and the U.S. Agency for International Development, to use foreign aid to assist gays and lesbians who are facing human rights violations. And he ordered U.S. agencies to protect vulnerable gay and lesbian refugees and asylum seekers.

“The struggle to end discrimination against lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons is a global challenge, and one that is central to the United States’ commitment to promoting human rights,” Obama said in a statement.

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Lady Gaga Going To White House To Discuss Anti-Bullying Initiative

WASHINGTON — Lady Gaga is coming to the White House.

The pop singer is meeting with Obama administration staffers Tuesday to discuss her work on bullying prevention. The White House held an anti-bullying conference earlier this year, and the administration estimates that bullying affects 13 million students, or about a third of those attending school.

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Political Agendas in Children’s Movies? You Betcha, Say Conservatives

Moviegoers have been seeing subtle political messages in children’s films since 1937, when Walt Disney released Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs — were those supposed to be feminist or anti-feminist messages? Depends on who you ask. Lately, though, things have taken a more partisan turn, with some Hollywood liberals admitting they sometimes insert political messages into their work and some conservatives reading propaganda into what others see as pretty harmless entertainment. Here’s a few examples of what conservatives — and a few liberals — are saying about Hollywood’s agenda when it comes to movies it makes for kids.

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Barney Frank to Announce Retirement

Massachusetts Rep. Barney Frank, the longest-serving openly gay member of Congress and one of four openly gay Congress members currently in office, will not seek reelection in 2012, multiple sources confirmed Monday morning to The Advocate.

http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2011/11/28/Barney_Frank_Wont_Seek_ReElection/

Gay Councilman Van Bramer to marry next summer

Last Monday at a Puerto Rican restaurant, Councilman Jimmy Van Bramer was presented with an engagement ring and a marriage proposal from his long-time partner.

Van Bramer, despite being caught off guard, said “yes” and is now scheduled to marry Sunnyside Gardens resident Dan Hendrick next summer. The pair have been in a relationship for more than 12 years.

http://sunnysidepost.com/2011/11/20/councilman-van-bramer-to-marry-next-summer/

Hundreds of LGBT leaders to gather in Houston

http://www.gaypolitics.com/2011/10/18/hundreds-of-lgbt-leaders-to-gather-in-houston/

 

LGBT leaders are everywhere, but for a few days this December, downtown Houston will be ground zero for openly LGBT leaders involved in government, politics and community organizations.

The 27th International Gay & Lesbian Leadership Conference will take place there December 1 to 4, according to the Gay & Lesbian Leadership Institute, which produces the annual event.  Some 600 attendees are expected, including out leaders from Argentina, Mexico, Nepal, Poland, South Africa, Serbia, Philippines, Uganda, and Nigeria.