My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship since freshman year of college, and we’re now going into our junior year. Although I really care about him, I don’t think that staying long distance is the right answer because I’m not sure if he is “the one.” I don’t want to make a clean break because I love him but am not certain about him long term. Would it be selfish of me to ask him to be in an open relationship in case I change my mind later and want to go back to being in a relationship?
— Caught in a Dilemma at Columbia
http://www.hercampus.com/love/real-live-college-guy-jake-should-you-try-long-distance-open-relationship